Wednesday, April 28, 2010

YERIMA AND BABY WIFE, WHO IS TO BLAME?

It is no longer news that Senator Ahmed Sani Yerima also known as Sharia Governor got himself a baby wife not long ago or how do you describe a union between this old man and a 13 years old girl.
Women groups are shouting foul and calling for the head of the former governor of Zamfara State.
In as much as Yerima is guilty of child abuse, what of the parents of the girl? What motivated the parents of the baby wife into agreeing for such a union? could we not say that the parents of Yerima's newest wife have let Nigerians parents down? Infact i will be happy if their other children will be taken away from them so that they will not give them away for marriage to another old man. I wonder what will motivate a parent into giving someone at that away in marriage. I thank the women who went to the senate to protest but then let them get the parents of the girl first hand them over to security agencies. The senate is full of men with low morality, so i do not see a reason why they will allow Yerima to be disgraced.
Who knows some other Senators have their own baby wife. Yerima, the parents of the baby wife should and must be punished to put a stop to this evil act caled child abuse.

Wednesday, April 21, 2010

MEN ARE FATHERS BY ASSUMPTION.

It is a popular saying that it is only women that trully know the father of their child or children.
Based on this, one can rightly say that men are fathers by assumption.
So one can not actually say that his father is actually his biological father.
It is only a woman that knows when she takes in and who actually scored the goal. So when a child is born, the mother tells him or her that this man is his/her father and in almost all the cases,it is the husband that gets the credit of fathering the child when he may not be the one in the actual sense.
What do men have to do other than believe that what their darling wife told them is true and this makes them fathers by assumption.
It is a however an assumption that only a DNA Test can correct.
So what can men do about it?
You that is a man, is it not your mother that showed you  your father or where you there when they gave birth to you?